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Any gay/bi Scorpio Mexican or Latin men in Los Angeles? I am a Capricorn looking for a serious relationship with a scorpio. I always get along with scorpios but somehow life consequences changes our paths (move to another place, unable to contact, etc). The next one is for keeps for sure.... | | close minded fool! | Why do some African American Men think it’s okay to be racist towards other African American Men...? ...but when White people are racist to them, they think it’s so wrong.
Because of how I look and some of my personal achievements, I get resentment from other African American Men who may not be as fortunate as myself. Many bi-racial African American women know exactly what I’m taking about because they get it from some darker African American Women. It is not too common and heard of on the side of the men, but it does happen from time to time. Although I’m often told that I’m a nice guy, I sometimes get hatred and resentment from other African American Men. For a long while, I could not understand why I was receiving this behavior from some other African American Men because we usually hear of White people being racist against Black people. But is wasn’t until some of my African American friends, men and women, started telling me that I was getting these reactions because of how I look. Some of my friends told me that some African American Men are resentful because they are jealous and think that I have it easy, job wise and social-dating wise, and my career success doesn’t make them any happier. I was disappointed by these answers because I’ve done so much for the African American community and I do not have it easy, or at least I’ve never seen it that way. My friends sometimes tell me, you don’t see how people see you, and they start to described my features and say that my modesty is what make it hard for me to understand. I’m tall African American with an Indian/Latin hair texture, complexion and features. Actually, many people don’t know what I am, (but if f*gg*t Black and Latin men will stop staring at me and asking me stupid questions, it will make my day a bit easier.) What’s always the most interesting to me is that these resentful African American Men would behave towards me and treat me exactly the way a White racist would. I always wondered if they think their behavior is any different than that of a White racist.
I believe this is racism like any other racism. | | i think it is because this society has defined beauty and other positive characteristics in terms that are attributable to whites. Lighter skin tones are therefore more desirable. Unfortunately, some Blacks have also bought into stereotypical notions about what it means to be black and white. I had a friend--she is black and played the violin, loved classical music and was an engineer. she confided in me that her cousins referred to her as an "oreo," because of her natural preferences. She was really hurt by that. Also because she chose to speak standardized English instead of Ebonics, she was made fun of. I think that her Black relatives bought into the substandard mentality and associates that as being "Black." That is really a form of self-degradation. You probably do have it easier--because you are "preferred" over someone w/ebony skin. Having said that, it is human nature to try and get ahead of others and for some, it sets up "competition." i am neither black nor white--I'm Asian and believe me, I've experienced racism from blacks and whites for different reasons--one because I'm not white enough & one because i'm not black. my tactic has always been to follow mom's advise--"kill them with kindness." I refuse to lower myself to their standards! And goodness begets goodness..... | Gay/bi guys on the net? I have a profile on every gay social site there is...and on all of them gay bi guys are the same way. I go on them looking really for friends and always come across "only into straight acting men
no fems
only into white/latin men
cannot be over 35
and cant be a fat**** this kinda ruins my thoughts of actually finding a guy im into. I'm afraid to talk to other race guys on there, because all their friends are either the same race as them or another one besides black. it also doesn't be a single black guy in their friends on those sites
or mabye a guy thats into me on there. (im 17 years old by the way). All the girls say I'm attractive....but the gay guys I find attractive...don't find me attractive (I'm mostly attracted to multiracial guys). I think its mainly because me being a black male....other race guys doesn't respond to me. What should I do...do you think these gay guys on social sites are like this in real life!? | | Considering that you're so young, I wouldn't resort to meeting someone online. Meet someone near you in real life and you can get to know them for their character, and not their online profile. =) | Why does it matter to people if we are sorta bi-racial? I'm half white half hispanic.I look white to most people.Some people can see in my features I look not full white.Okay my husband is full hispanic.We live in an area of educated people from all over the world.A college town.But then we go to a city about 45 min. away and this area is predominetly hispanic.I love it,until my husband and I go to the mall to shop.We are a young looking couple,and we love to shop for clothes etc.or just walk the mall hlding hands.When we are walking up to lets say a group of latinas as young as we are;why do they have to give me the evil eye look?My husband has noticed this too!! They hate in their looks towards me.Because we think it may be i'm white and i don't exactly look like one of them?But the funny thing is that i'm half of that culture just as much as i'm half white.
It's frusterating and we ignore the looks or the stares.But I've always had the hots for latin men.I'm sooo attracted to them.So I have my husband and thats all that matters to me.I'm attracted to him,obviously and we shouldn't care what others think.But can anyone answer this???
And why do white people stare at us as well?Are they curious,too?????
Hmmm i am soooo confused by this and I can't really talk about it to anyone.
Thank you!!!
Spanglish30 | | Take it as a compliment... you and you husband are a good-looking couple and people notice... perhaps they're even a little jealous.... | I'm bi-curious & do not know wut 2 do? I'm 22 year old bi-curious guy who likes women more than men & really likes Latin American women particularly young women & also likes 2 be touch in the private area. I don't know what 2 do bout dis. | | im not really experienced in giving advice about people's sexuality, but you just described that you like women, what kind of women, and where you like them to touch you. so i dont think it would be going out on a limb to say that you are probably not attracted to men. | I am a very sexy bi-racial man but Asians don't see me? Alright so i am a very sexy bi-racial man with eyes that makes women melt and a nice sexy brown skin.
So i have had sex with Caucasian, Latin, mixed, east-Asian and Arabic... still have to do a Black and Asian woman but the problem is Asian women don't look at me why is that? | | Asian women are into two color types: Class and Green, must have both or an abundant of one to stand a chance. Asian women need to be put back in their place, I don't get the fuss over titless and assless is all about. Something tells me gay white men are hiding their gayness behind the veil of dating asian women. | Why do a lot of men like to "do" their woman/man hard? I noticed this...Back then, when I used to watch porn, I noticed that men used to become very aggressive when...um..."doing" their female or male partners. For example: the man would thrust inside their partner's genital hole VERY rough while saying things like "F^ck yeah!" and "Take it!"
I'm aware that not ALL men do this, but from what I've seen, a lot of them do. ESPECIALLY my "latin-gangster" buddies. And so I just wanted to ask...why do men who like to "do" their woman or man hard, like to "DO" their woman or man hard?
And please don't say something like "...all men do try to sexually dominate their partners because of instinct...", because I NEVER tried to sexually dominate ANY woman or man when I experimented with penetrating them when I thought I was straight/gay/bi...this justifies that not ALL men try to sexually dominate their partner.
NOTE: I can't post add details for some reason...therefore, I can't respond. | | Maybe perhaps it's the media portraying making love as being rough, or because for some reason those guys just like it better that way. | When Black Women Date Out Black Men Criticize Us, Why?? No Fair....? So I was out on the town celebrating getting old (lol) with random people I met in NYC. Listening to live music and getting liquored up. I was with my close friend, an Indian girl and 2 asian guys + 2 White guys, some were gay, whatever....
A group of black guys started insulting us, it was a mess. I don't ghetto behavior, it scrares me. I can get ghetto, I am not ashamed to say it, but generally I am reserved and avoid confrontations at all cost. Anyway, these brothas were ripping us for being with these guys, mind you, we were just bar hopping and laughing, nothing sexual even came up. Some of the me doing the insulting were well dressed and seemed like professionals, I guess. I wonder where is this coming from?? Black men date whoever they want,always have. Since when do they even care about what Black Women do??
Also, a male friend, black, said that his co workers (all men) were talking about Black and Latin women in NYC with White and Asian Men. According to him, the guys said Black/Latin women are whore and are only dating these men for money. Why say that?? If they are treating you right, why should you feel bad to date them. This guy that led the conversation, as funny as it was, was a Bi-Racial Dude (Blk/Wht). How can he criticize us on dating out and he is a product of it?? A mess!!
Anywho, I just don't see how some Black Men can critcize us for dating out when they have been willingly doing it for centuries and sometimes for the wrong reasons. Some say they want their guys to have good hair, skin color, better chance at life.
Look in the mirror don't point the finger.
Hey that rhymes :o) | | You should come to the UK. Round here dating's open, no matter what race. My own cousin's married to a white man. | What do you find most attractive about each race of men (women only)? I’m bi-sexual. But I’m opened to dating any race men or women. Name what you find most attractive about each race of men. Below are mine from what I‘ve observed:
Asian men (Japanese/ Chinese):
Brown like skin
The fact that they’re easy to get along with
Variety eye colour
Silky like hair
Close to white
Easygoing
Culture
Their movies
White men:
Variety in eye colour blue/ green
Tall
Variety in hair colour and silky hair
Casual dress code
Funny
Athletic
Charismatic
Creamy skin
Easygoing
Masculine
Voices
Knight in shining armour
Latin m:
Olive skin
Tall
Build
Masculine
Hair variety
Eye colour variety
Culture
Black men:
Repel asian women away
Burnt tan from hell
Overgrown lips
Large 8 inch cuckold wanting wang
Excuse for cotton hair known as fungi
Monkey like scent
Deadbeat fathers
Beat women to death
Act white by trying acting like a human public
The fact that all non white parents hate them
Non black wm date them out of guilt
Their skin colour is a crap stain on non-black women’s skin
Best trait: no women want them/ not even bw (only what you see on tv)
Not really masculine check links below:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=AmbF9gaYucg
As I said I am open to dating all races. If I can date black men, I can sure as hell date aliens. So ladies list the attributes you find attractive in each race of man. | Wow! you got a lot to say about black men considering you're 'open to dating all races'. Sounds like you've already prejudged them. I'm sorry that this is the only perception you have had of them. I am not attracted to black men because most of the ones i've met have had the same sort of personality .... very flashy, showy and wandering eye. i'm just down to earth.
I've dated japanese, arab, latino and caucasian but none of them was down to looks but more of how i related to them and vice versa. | What are the best cities for black men to date inter-racially in the United States? I'm a black male of African-American/Native American/French decent that has dated a wide variety of women. However, I've grown bored with white women(not to mention the racism they attract) and sick of black women(too much attitude, lies, and drama) , so I'm looking to exclusively date bi-racial, asian, or latin (Non-Mexicans) women from here on out. The problem is, there aren't very many attractive ladies where I currently reside that fall into any of those categories. So where should I consider moving to in order to have a better chance of finding that physical specimen that I want? | Come to the bay area in CA
we're diverse out here! =) |
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