Is anyone else Obsessed with strap on dildos? I'm a straight man and I'm obsessed with strap on dildos but mostly when women wear them. I collect pictures of women wearing them, I've got into the habit of watching porn that only has them in it I told my wife about it and she's wore on for me a couple of time and it was HEAVEN. I'm starting to wonder if this is a healthy obsession or do I need to seek help? I'm not attracted to men but does this mean I might be a bisexual? Any Ideas? |
If you're not attracted to men, you're not bi or gay. Period. A lot of straight couples engage in this and other more gender bending behavior.
This is just sex. From your question it sounds like you were on the receiving end of anal sex. If so, this might seem unusual, but actually a lot of straight men enjoy some type of anal play. While most men won't admit publicly to objects, it is not unusual for men to admit to enjoying fingers in public.
People's sexual interests often change over time. Many people enjoy finding something new, and therefore exciting. Most commonly fetishes develop early in life. However, if this begins to interfere with your marriage, life or ability to enjoy other forms of intimacy with your wife then this may have developed into a fetish. In that case, it would be time to either stop, or discuss it with a professional.
Many people simply enjoy the excitement of breaking a taboo.
As long as it isn't negatively impacting your life and your wife is a willing participant, where's the harm? |
Do they make strap-on dildos for cats? do they make strap-on dildos for cats? |
| err no, WIERD. |
Penises are disgusting. But dildos/strap ons are not? OK. I am confused.
My lesbian girlfriend admitted recently she thinks penises are disgusting. She always has. Even when she forced herself to experiment sexually with men, she thought they were ew.
Yet, I use this strap on dildo on her which looks like a penis! it is same shape...it's just pink in colour..doesn't quite have the veins etc, but looks very similar to one.
How come she likes that but finds the real stuff soo disgusting?
I am bisexual and cannot understand this about my lesbian gf.. |
| Maybe cause it doesn't spit? Or because there isn't a hairy man attached to it? |
Where can I find a plus size strap on harness? My lesbian lover and I have been together for two years, and she has undergone some physical complications that assisted in making her almost 400 lbs. We have continuously searched on the internet and in the city for a dildo strap on harness that will accommodate a very large woman. I was wondering if there is anyone out there that can help us solve this problem, or knows a decent website that may sell what we are looking for. |
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Is It gay If a girl uses a strap on dildo on a guy? I need to know cuz my gf wants to use a strap on dildo on me, and make me feel like I have a vagina cuz I picked on her how ***** are better than vaginas? Is It or not? |
Nope. There are plenty of straight men who enjoy anal stimulation. After all, we all have the same body parts, and they get stimulated and feel pleasure in the exact same way. To say that a man getting penetrated with a strap-on is gay is akin to say a woman receiving oral sex from a man is lesbian.
The only thing that makes you gay is if you desire men. If you're getting penetrated and are wishing it was a guy, then yeah, it's gay. But if it's a loving, kinky sex act between you and your girlfriend, then it's perfectly heterosexual.
Enjoy it and don't worry! |
How exactly do u use strap-on dildos? i dont get how to pump in and out.......thats kinda embarrassing though |
You might try reading some books on the subject, like:
"The Ultimate Guide to Strap on Sex: The Complete Resource for Women and Men" by Karen Lotney
or
"The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex" by Violet Blue
Other than that, you just might need practice and getting used to it! |
My girlfriend just got a strap on dildo and a double headed dildo and waned to come oer to use them on me? i thought a girl would have to be a lesbian or at least bi to want to do this but i am straight and have actually thought about doing it. do straight females do this kinda thing with other women or em i just having 1 of thoughts "want to experiment with other girls" moments? what do you think? |
| It is a normal thought for many heterosexual women. There is nothing wrong with thinking about being with another woman. I personally love being with women, although I consider myself heterosexual. You don't want to be in a relationship, you just want to have fun. Good luck. |
Would you have a problem getting a strap-on dildo for Christmas from your GF? this question is open to all person, male or female, gay or straight. |
| It would be nice to get one from someone other than Grandma for a change, so no, I wouldn't have a problem with it. |
Want to hear from lesbian woman do you prefer she goes down on your or uses a strap on dildo? I am taking a survey to see if I am more straight or gay. I have been with men and woman but with both I don't get much pleasure when they go down on me it is more the intercourse I like or the use of the finger. |
First off if you like strap on better than a male's penis you are likely more on the lesbian side of the continuum. If you like strap on and penis equally, you are more bisexual. Taking this logic further, you can have sex with a man and fantasize about a woman, and still you'd be more a straight leaning bi. Given your question, I think your sexuality will be fluid the more you learn about it. If you want to have guys in the future, take stock of the situation and find a fantastic male to be best friends, and someone you want to raise a guy with. I'm assuming you are early in your early twenties, so remember this when you are 30.
I've been with women for fourteen years and both my partners were somewhat inexperienced when they met me and performed oral sex. With one we used a strap on dildo, and I didn't like it. For all those years I thought I would never sleep with a man again. You say you like penetration, so it seems that you have partners who are skilled at penetrating. At the age of 40 I met a man whose oral skills proved beyond a doubt that my ten second or thirty second orgasms were accomplished by oral. You live you learn. Different partners will please you in different ways. |